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Matches and unmatching
How matches work on Kilig, where to find them, how to start a conversation, and what happens when you unmatch someone.
Son güncelleme: November 8, 2026
A match means two people are interested in each other. It's the start of something, whether that's a great conversation, a first date, or just a new friend. Here's how matches work and how to move on gracefully when one isn't right.
How a match happens
You match with someone when you both like each other. That can happen two ways:
- You like someone who has already liked you. You'll see a match screen right away.
- Someone likes you back after you've liked them. You'll get a notification (if you've turned on match notifications).
Super likes work the same way: if the other person likes you back, you match.
Find your matches
- On the web, go to Matches.
- On mobile, tap the Messages tab. New matches appear in a row at the top, and conversations appear below.
New matches you haven't messaged yet are marked so you can find them easily. Matches don't expire, so you can take your time, but a prompt reply is a great way to show you're interested.
Start a conversation
Either person can send the first message.
- Tap your match to open a chat.
- Look at their profile for something to talk about. A prompt answer, a shared interest, or a photo is a great starting point.
- Type your message and tap Send.
Need ideas? A specific question, like "Which hiking trail in your photos would you recommend for a beginner?", usually works better than "Hey." See Messaging features for everything you can send.
Unmatch someone
If a match isn't right for you, it's okay to move on. Unmatching is quiet and final.
- Open your chat with the person.
- Tap the ••• menu (top right on mobile, beside their name on the web).
- Choose Unmatch.
- Tap Unmatch again to confirm.
What happens when you unmatch
- The match and your conversation are removed for both of you.
- They can't message you anymore.
- You won't appear in each other's discovery again.
- They aren't sent a notification. You'll simply disappear from their matches.
- Unmatching can't be undone.
Unmatch, block, or report?
| Option | Use it when | What it does |
|---|---|---|
| Unmatch | The connection just isn't right | Ends the match and removes the conversation |
| Block | You don't want this person to see or contact you | Ends the match, and they can't see your profile or contact you again |
| Report | Someone broke our rules or made you feel unsafe | Sends the case to our Trust & Safety team, and lets you block at the same time |
If someone has made you uncomfortable, we recommend reporting instead of just unmatching, so our team can review what happened. Learn more in Block someone and Report someone.
Report someone you've already unmatched
Unmatched someone and then realized you should report them? You can still do it.
- Go to Matches (on mobile, the Messages tab).
- Tap ••• at the top, then Report someone you've unmatched.
- Choose the person from your recent unmatches and follow the steps.
You can also email safety@kilig.zowebo.com with as many details as you can.
When a match disappears
If a match disappears from your list, the other person may have unmatched you, deleted their account, or had their account removed for breaking our guidelines. (Snoozing doesn't affect matches, so a snoozed match stays in your list.) For privacy, we don't share which one.